Identifying Great Family Activities

Many people feel uncomfortable with everything surrounding death, including attending funerals. After all, death is something people often try to avoid discussing, even when it is happening around them. As a result, you might not be sure exactly how to react when something does happen to a loved one.

These tips will help you prepare for funeral services and sympathize with those who are grieving in this difficult time.

Know What to Wear

Subdued colors are perfect for a funeral, unless otherwise noted. Black is the traditional funeral color. Men often wear suits or dress slacks and women tend to wear dresses. While a suit-and-tie attire is not required for mourners, formal attire is recommended. The key is to avoid anything that is very revealing or informal, like sandals, shorts, or ripped jeans. You should also dress in such a way that your outfit is in alignment with the church's dress requirements or standards.

Know How to Express Sympathy

Many people don't know how to acknowledge the passing of an individual. A short phone call or card may be appropriate to express your grief if you are not very close to the family, but visiting or sending flowers is acceptable too. It is also a good idea to volunteer to cook meals or clean for the grieving family.

If you are unable to attend the funeral, sending a sympathy card and expressing your well-wishes is a good idea. Expressing yourself in a genuine manner is most desirable, no matter how long after the death has occurred. You don't have to pretend as if the death never happened simply because you think it might feel awkward to express your sympathy.

Know When to Arrive

Before the official funeral or memorial, the family may hold a viewing or reception. Only show up to the funeral home at the times specified in the obituary, as other times may be private times for the families, even if the home is open.

For the actual funeral service, always arrive early with your phone on silent. Arriving late to a funeral is considered a major misstep.

Generally, avoid taking photos or videos during the funeral service unless one of the deceased's immediate family members requests otherwise. This is considered disrespectful in many cultures.

Finally, just make sure to listen to those who are mourning. They will have the best idea of what they would like and what they need.